This search of a Sense of Place is driven by our own experience. We have moved several times throughout our career, leading to a sense of rootlessness. Looking forward to settling down for retirement we realize that there really is nowhere that provides us with real apartengono. To paraphrase Gertrude Stein, we are looking for a place where there is a there there. As Paul asked in his 2008 Migrant, "Where is home?", "Where are the anchors?"
Ours is a young country, with few physical connections to ancestral heritage. As Americans we don't have ancient monuments like the Neolithic temple ruins of Malta, nor the equivalent of medieval castles (unless one remembers the Ancestral Puebloan ruins of the Southwest, which are usually overlooked as part of our American heritage). Rather, ours is a culture that is "on the move", whose monuments are to the first drive-in restaurant.
Gozo and Malta retain stone anchors to the ancient past yet they are a new nation (independence in 1964) buffeted by the same rapidly changing realities of 21st century technology, economy, climate and politics as the rest of the world. Several people shared their perception that Gozo has noticeably changed over the past decade. There were some wonderful moments throughout our stay when random Gozitans we met made us feel truly welcomed, but we wish we would have experienced something more akin to the gracious hospitality provided by Arthall, and the community created by Arthall, in a sustained fashion throughout the bulk of our residency. As it was, we were happy that the residency was over, and we spent Valentine's Day flying back home.
We are left with the realization that our quest to discover apartengono shared by contented generational members of an old world small community unchanged by the economic and political realities of the 21st century is as naive and absurdly romantic as Rousseau's imagined "noble savage" of the new world.